There have been moments, stretches, and seasons of sadness and grief in the months and years since my mom’s death. I like this quote from Mary Oliver because it is honest, “My heart dresses in black and dances.” As I think about both of my parents, my heart will always wear black. Simply put, I miss them. On the other hand, my heart dances because I know, and they knew, the promises of Jesus. My mom would often say, as she thought about heaven, “Just think what I have to look forward to!”
Your heart, for whatever reason, might be dressed in black. Yes, life. Please know, that a heart dressed in black can also dance. Both realities can be true at the same time. In the meantime, hold unto your loved ones, and if you get a chance to turn around and give them another hug…do it!
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